The tattoo on the one hand is the desire of transgression, the other belonging to a group. But as teenagers we often "decorates" for fashion and underestimates the choice, which is for life. It is better not to have it clear, in fact, because they run the risk to health.
Because he wants
Fashion is the main reason. Having it means to feel glamorous and part of a group. I do not mean it to be outside. "The speech may seem trivial, but it is for a teenager, so the identification with peers is crucial," explains Erica Gardinetti. "But the tattoo is also a sign of distinction, uniqueness, transgression and rebellion. Adolescents at this stage of their lives, looking for their own identity and independence and want to break away from parental control, even decorandosi the body. " Less common is the tattoo done for a surprising event such as a wedding or a radical change of life.
If parents do not agree ...
In most cases, the parents do not agree that a young child will face a tattoo, even if they themselves have, in turn, one. The fear is that if they repent. "But the authoritarian prohibition only heightens the desire for a child with the risk that perform equally, even in centers where illegal immigrants are not complied with the rules of hygiene," says psychologist Gardinetti. So what to do? The ideal is to find a compromise. Before you say "no" absolute, assess the reasons for the request. If the desire is a manifestation of a sign of rebellion against parents, it will be difficult to be negative and the risk that the teenager to do the same, maybe low cost is very high. If the desire is born from the fashion and the fact that all my friends have it, you can try to communicate with the child, take your time and give yourself a "time" together to see if the desire passes. In both cases, however, if the situation degenerates, better to give consent and accompany the child to an authorized and safe, rather than endanger the health risk to do it illegally. If necessary, try to "treat" the symbol to draw. A little star on the ankle than he can support the design of a huge dragon on his arm. In fact, if the request is too large, it can hide a sorrow and harmony with your body that expresses itself trying to imbruttirlo (like a problem such as anorexia) and is to be explored with psychological counseling. Finally, always remember that the adolescent tattoo will delete it forever because it is not easy, it requires several sessions and submit to unknown dangers to health.
The tattoo on the one hand is the desire of transgression, the other belonging to a group. But as teenagers we often "decorates" for fashion and underestimates the choice, which is for life. It is better not to have it clear, in fact, because they run the risk to health.
Because he wants
Fashion is the main reason. Having it means to feel glamorous and part of a group. I do not mean it to be outside. "The speech may seem trivial, but it is for a teenager, so the identification with peers is crucial," explains Erica Gardinetti. "But the tattoo is also a sign of distinction, uniqueness, transgression and rebellion. Adolescents at this stage of their lives, looking for their own identity and independence and want to break away from parental control, even decorandosi the body. " Less common is the tattoo done for a surprising event such as a wedding or a radical change of life.
If parents do not agree ...
In most cases, the parents do not agree that a young child will face a tattoo, even if they themselves have, in turn, one. The fear is that if they repent. "But the authoritarian prohibition only heightens the desire for a child with the risk that perform equally, even in centers where illegal immigrants are not complied with the rules of hygiene," says psychologist Gardinetti. So what to do? The ideal is to find a compromise. Before you say "no" absolute, assess the reasons for the request. If the desire is a manifestation of a sign of rebellion against parents, it will be difficult to be negative and the risk that the teenager to do the same, maybe low cost is very high. If the desire is born from the fashion and the fact that all my friends have it, you can try to communicate with the child, take your time and give yourself a "time" together to see if the desire passes. In both cases, however, if the situation degenerates, better to give consent and accompany the child to an authorized and safe, rather than endanger the health risk to do it illegally. If necessary, try to "treat" the symbol to draw. A little star on the ankle than he can support the design of a huge dragon on his arm. In fact, if the request is too large, it can hide a sorrow and harmony with your body that expresses itself trying to imbruttirlo (like a problem such as anorexia) and is to be explored with psychological counseling. Finally, always remember that the adolescent tattoo will delete it forever because it is not easy, it requires several sessions and submit to unknown dangers to health.
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